她在愤怒时最美

"There are a vast number of women who are beginning to wake out of the long sleep that is known as the cooperation of one's own oppression and self-denigration, and they are banding together to make the beginnings of a new and massive women's movement in America and in the world, to establish true equality between the sexes, to break the old machines of sexual politics, and to replace it with a more human and civilized world for both sexes, and to end the present system's oppression of men as well as of women." "In answer to a man's question, 'What can I do about women's liberation?' Wear a dress. Wear a dress that you made yourself or bought in a dress store. Wear a dress, and underneath the dress wear elastics around your hips and underneath your nipples. Wear a dress, and underneath the dress wear a sanitary napkin. Wear a dress and wear sling-back shoes, high-heeled shoes. Wear a dress with elastic and a sanitary napkin underneath and sling-back shoes on your feet and walk down Telegraph Avenue."

本片比较完整地展开了20世纪60-70年代美国女权运动的兴起、发展、和成就。

其实一直对女权这个议题感到抽象，好像容易卷进一些剪不断理还乱的空泛缠斗之中。

但随着本片回到运动之初，就会明白，女权运动之所以能发展壮大，源于其扎实的群众基础——女性在工作上遭遇的机遇&待遇不平等，在相夫教子角色中的紧紧束缚，在男性色情凝视下的绝对弱势，在处置自己身体（堕胎和性愉悦）的自主权，在性认同上的选择......

当一个，两个，更多女人聚集在一起，讲述自己在生活中遇到的问题时，她们终于发现，自己并不孤立。从姐妹间的彼此理解、支持，愤怒，到决定发声。她们大声疾呼，上街游行，斥责男性沙文主义，摒弃社会对女性的刻板要求——印象特别深刻的是那个feminism trash can，女人们轮番上前，把塑身衣，胸罩，象征着女性迎合男权社会的物件，都扔进去烧掉——这样激进、大声的集体行动，唤醒了还在传统价值观中沉睡的女人，也迫使男人不得不引起注意。

也正是基于真实的诉求和共鸣，想要改变的决心，以及卓有成效的组织，女权运动才得以像滚雪球一样，让置身运动之外的女性不断认同并参与进来。星星之火，终于燎原。

不过，任何一个成功的政治运动，都会有它的后坐力，本片虽提及了一些组织内部意识形态的分岔路——如同性恋女性、有色女性如何从主流组织中分裂出来，自成一家，为了更好地代言自身独特的诉求——但总体的叙事，还是从大方向上肯定了运动的进步。

而我好奇的是，这样一个风风火火向前推进的运动，有没有带来任何反作用力？片中提到了运动后期，组织中的女性成员，感到受到女性领导人的“压迫”。而这些从成功的土壤里生长出的矛盾，也格外真实，且会让视角更完整，不是吗？

此外也很感兴趣，整个世界范围的女权运动，多大程度上受到了美国运动的影响。

如果能把这两点补充上，会是一个更客观和完整的记录。

It's really hard for people to understand now what it was like before the feminist movement. The wedding was the big thing, the marriage was success, you couldn't have career aspirations you couldn't decide not to have a child, the most beautiful woman was never satisfied with how she looked. You could look like miss America and you're still thought something was wrong with how you looked, let's not even talk about birth control and abortion, the horror, the fear of pregnancy loomed over anything one did. if you were raped, people wouldn't believe you, if you were battered, no one would believe you. It was feminists who brought up these issues and put them on the table, we had a sense of momentum, that was the sense of momentum that came from the 60s. It was like all this energy had been pent up in these women for all these years, and it just exploded.

"The big insight of the women's movement was the personal is political."

"It was all women are beautiful, that was one of our slogans."

"You didn't make us, we are making you to take us seriously."不是因为你们报道了我们，而是我们让你们不得不严肃对待。

"But that's who made abortion rights come... Just a student and just a mother, gathering together and protesting."

"The problem is rapists, and we need to address the problem! And let me give you a hint. It's not our clothes. It's not."

"Believe it or not, people are assaulted regardless of what they wear. Some people who get raped are in burkas." 无论你信不信 被袭击者与她们的衣着无关。穿着穆斯林长袍的人也会被强奸。

"Women must decide their fate.Not the church, not the state."

一口气看了两遍，这部影片有很多思想的闪光点，上面记录的是我很喜欢的几个句子。当我们享有一些权利的时候并对此习以为常的时候，这部纪录片会告诉我们，嘿，你知道这些是怎么来的吗，你知道几百年甚至几十年前的女性是怎样生活的吗？我看着屏幕上她们的面庞，我感到感激。她们不仅仅是为自己而战，而是"fight for women" ,或者说是"fight for generation".

这部影片让我感受到了真诚，不是因为它对于女性解放的热情，而是它对于运动中产生的错误的态度，它的回顾、总结和反思。这是一条摸索着前进的道路，而她们也确实遇到了一些问题，值得庆幸的是，她们也的的确确为这个社会的改变做出了巨大的贡献。这里的她们不是指影片中的几个人，而是世界各地为女性权利努力的人们。

最后引用这部影片中我最喜欢的一句话：

"Personal is political."

The Feminine Mystique

看完这部纪录片让人有时候眼睛发热的就在于，看到了你读的她们，看到Kate Millet，Betty Friedan；

我们都知道爱情“只存在于女性病态的心理幻觉”，而她们真正站出来改变女性命运，每次都说60s，70s激进，可是一旦女性拒绝自己的“女性特质”，则被认为精神变态。

一切与女性有关的事情就是最紧迫、最关键的问题。

几十年前就不要向下自由了，不要性束缚。

女性从来从属，自由还是压迫？清醒认识吧。

对比今天，

岁静是踩在谁头上在大笑呢？

我们自己的身体自己做主，不再接受社会对我们的评价，想想现在的所谓的“处女情结 白幼瘦可爱审美”，这不就意味着容易被规训和驯服吗，愤怒意味着开始觉醒，周围的sexism越来越隐蔽，为什么高学历女生不找个好老公就被认为之前的努力白费了，“如果女性要结婚，那么他们应当享有退休金”“我们已经获得了你们的关注，登上了媒体头条，不是因为你们报道了我们，而是我们让你们不得不严肃对待”“只有当我们维护自己的权利时，才会得到胜利”“当我们对某件事情如此愤怒时，我们应该采取行动反对这件事”“Freedom,it's a moving target,Freedom is something that is over the horizon,and you can't stop sailing toward it just beacuse you don't reach it you just keeping going,and every generation has another opportunity to take it futher”女人不会做危险或暴力的事情，The really dangerous thing was talk.Because telling the truth and talking is very revolutionary."“We talk in different tones,we don't all agree.We have the right to define our own differences.”这个纪录片让人热血沸腾，女性主义是女生获取内在力量的一个性别定位，女性要有力量，要去愤怒，去争取自己的权利！个人的就是政治的，女性主义是一个政治问题，是一个经济问题，为什么女性就要照顾家庭负责家务，还要通过容貌来取悦他人，让别人指摘我们的身材和样貌，让广告商制造出来的容貌焦虑成为欺骗我们钱的筹码，为什么女性会有选美比赛，男性就没有选帅比赛，女性对漂亮的定义为什么要由男性主导，仿佛漂亮就是对一个女性来说最重要的东西，而很多女生自己也是这样想的。消费主义和资本主义把女性的容貌焦虑可真是应用得炉火纯青，对女性来说，大脑性感更是一种性感，去关注政治，去关注经济，去关注科技关注哲学，去愤怒，去燃烧自己，去获得自由，活成你想要成为的样子！